Deception ~ Deceitful, misleading, specious
This topic chose me. I randomly opened Volume 1 of the Shorter Oxford English Dictionary to the D section and ran my finger down the page, opened my eyes and my finger had landed on Deception. I wasn’t happy with the negative impression I have of the word: underhanded, fraud, monkey business. I’ve been carrying this word around with me for a few days, wondering how it fits my theme.
In the Oxford American Writer’s Thesaurus I came across a challenge of how to describe a person who is said to be deceptively strong? I would describe Ruth, the main character in The Winter Loon as deceptively strong.
Ruth handles and rides horses like a pro. She competes in relay races, one of the most dangerous rodeo events of the era. After a few months on the rodeo circuit, she dresses as a cowboy and joins a steer wrestling team as a hazer. A hazer rides alongside an eight hundred plus pound steer to keep it running in a straight line for the bulldogger who in a few seconds wrestles the steer to the ground. It takes a lot of skill and guts, especially for a woman in a man’s world.
But Ruth has a softer, weaker side. She has trouble being assertive. Raised to believe she should marry and be cared for by her husband, Ruth conforms to her gender role. When she leaves home for the rodeo, she is a follower who must learn to stand up for herself. She let’s Mac, her cowboy sponsor who fronts the money push her around even though she earns high prize dollars. The underbelly of Ruth’s strength is her passivity.
There’s also a deceptively positive aspect to deception. It has a self-protective side for women in keeping their relationship hidden. The white lies about being spinsters, saying they live together to save money during the Great Depression were deceptive. The fact that the truth could result in persecution, losing everyone and everything dear, physical harm and even death, made deception advantageous. But it also took a toll on a person’s freedom to be authentic and relaxed with co-workers, with family and casual friends. The underbelly of living a self-protective life through deception is fear.
Eleanor Roosevelt was probably the best-known woman of the Thirties who lived a duplicitous life because of the woman she loved. I don’t use duplicitous in a pejorative way. She lived a secret life to protect herself and her husband and to keep from shocking her adoring public.
It wasn’t totally secret. In The Winter Loon Ruth and Gisela laugh over “lesbians in the White House” when Gertrude Stein and Alice B. Toklas have tea with Mrs. Roosevelt. According to the book, Loving Eleanor by Susan Wittig Albert, FDR took action to cover up Lorena Hickok’s relationship with his wife.
It’s a great read about not only about the relationship between Lorena and Eleanor, but also about strong, professional women of the 1930s.
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April 5, 2016 at 7:34 am
Wow! I did not know that about Eleanor Rosevelt! I am learning so much on this A2Z challenge! Gotta put that book on my to-read list. Thanks!
April 5, 2016 at 7:47 am
There are a lot of things in the book most of us didn’t know about.
April 5, 2016 at 8:32 am
That book will be going on my list too. I had never thought of the positive side of deception before – good post.
April 5, 2016 at 8:51 am
You did well tying in the word deceptive with Ruth and I’m sure a lot of people in general. And I too didn’t know that about Eleanor Roosevelt!
April 5, 2016 at 11:15 am
Your post reminds me of the saying “still waters run deep”. I agree that the word deception isn’t always a negative connotation and sometimes is a necessity for survival. Thank you for the book recommendation. I’m going to go get it today.
April 5, 2016 at 12:28 pm
Wow, that is fascinating about Eleanor Roosevelt! I am definitely putting Loving Eleanor on my GoodReads “want to read” list.
April 5, 2016 at 5:54 pm
I am adding Loving Eleanor to my must read list. I enjoyed your creative and true take on deception.
April 5, 2016 at 11:09 pm
Thank you for that analysis of deception. I particularly love a Dan Brown book named “Deception Point.” Government is full of deception nowadays too.
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